Why is it that in our minds, we are the center of the
universe? We constantly look down to people as our inferiors, as if from birth
we enter a competition to be better than the person next to us.
And not only toward other people, but a variety of other
species as well. A homework question assigned to us this week regarding “The
Death of a Moth” asked us why the
author would talk about something as “insignificant as a moth's death?” Just from this
question, it is obvious that moths aren’t considered anywhere near as
important as human beings. WHY is this so? WHY do we give ourselves a greater
title over this species? Because they’re "so small" (Woolf)? Not like us (which they are, read the piece for more info on that)? Don’t have a
direct influence on us? Because if these are what our reasonings have come to,
we MUST put them to rest.
Firsts of all, to all of you who think moths don’t benefit
us… you’re 100,000% wrong, Moths actually pollinate our plants, hence, give us
food.
My point in providing this information, I want to prove how
the things that we may think are insignificant to our lives are actually
beneficial; yet, we fail to understand or even try to acknowledge that.
Instead, we simply kill animals for our own benefits, cause apparently what
they already do is not good enough for us. And now I come upon my second point—relating
this back to our interactions with each other. We treat others as dumb or
incompetent compared to ourselves, and how we deserve more than them. In
reality, no matter how much we may think we know about others, we truly don’t know
each one of their life stories, so we cannot automatically place ourselves on a
higher hierarchy. We need to care about others just as we do for ourselves and
to put them over own basic needs and desires, because in the end, the only
thing that matters is the relationships you’ve with others and the impact you’ve
created—not that you were the smartest in your class or the most popular kid in
school. The only thing these “accomplishments” do is make you feel better about
YOURSELF… but it is unfair to take your successes and degrade someone else for
it.
So, to end what I’m trying to say, I’m going to repeat my
main point once more—it is ESSENTIAL that we look at others the same way we
view ourselves. This way, inferiority and superiority will be nonexistent, and hopefully
it will make society become less judgmental, because no one deserves to be
looked upon with disapproval.
Going back to the soccer captain phenomenon… to all the
people that voted for themselves, I ask you: what truly constituents an
extraordinary captain? First, a true captain would definitely not vote for themselves
when it comes to it, because if you were truly meant to be a captain, your own
vote is "useless" (Woolf), and your teammates are the ultimate decision makers… you know… the people who
AREN’T inferior to you and have just as much a chance to become captain.